Real Growth Starts With You
Real growth begins when you take responsibility for your life — when you stop waiting for change and start creating it.
Decide what you want and move toward it every day. That’s how momentum builds. That’s when your standards rise.
Start Your Mindset ResetMonday, August 12, 2019
Sunday, May 19, 2019
How to Make Your Goals Happen
Ever wonder how many great ideas were rejected because the originator of that idea did not have the time, the money, or the manpower to bring the idea into fruition? Start building and creating a great life for yourself now. It doesn’t matter what you might THINK is missing – it’s all there for you. If you hold the image of your goal in your mind, you will attract everyone and everything you need for the fulfillment of that goal. You are like a magnet.
People often give up on a big goal because they know they will have to stretch. Stretching, for the most part, is uncomfortable so they abandon the great idea or goal. If you are to win and win big in life, you will have to learn how to be flexible.
When Columbus set sail, did he have the whole picture? When you placed a deposit to buy your first house, did you know exactly where the rest of the down payment would come from?
People fear failure … but many also fear success. As human beings, our very nature is to be afraid of that which we do not understand. The reason many fear success is due to the fact that they have never experienced it. You will often hear these people say, “Money will make you greedy and evil,” when in truth, money has nothing to do with it. Poor and rich alike suffer from greed and/or evil behavior.
and probably will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and in work, remembering that a noble and logical diagram will not die.
Nothing is impossible! Erase that word from your vocabulary. Thomas Edison was branded as being “slow” by his teachers. He left school after only three months of formal education. He burned down his father’s barn and used to sit on eggs to try to make them hatch. He was branded a misfit by society, yet he went on to become one of the greatest inventors of all time, creating over 1,000 inventions including the electric light, phonograph and movie camera.
Never reject an idea, dream or goal simply because it will be hard work. Success rarely comes without it. The thing is to keep the idea alive long enough to be able to devote enough energy and/or resources toward the goal to see it comes to pass.
- Identify a major goal that is challenging and emotional to you. By that, I mean a goal that you are genuinely excited about.
- Write the date for the attainment of your goal.
- Choose a goal that you’ve never achieved before. To set a goal to lose 20 pounds in 90 days is not a goal if you’ve achieved this same goal in the past.
- Develop a specific plan for attaining your goal.
- Make a list of people, organizations and publications that might assist you in achieving your goal.
- Begin thinking, feeling, and acting as if you already have the goal in your possession. This is where real dreaming comes in!
- Consider solely how the goal can be reached; refuse to accept, even for a second, that is cannot be reached. Retreat is not an option.
- Carry your goal with you on a Goal Card and read it several times each day.
Thursday, July 26, 2018
YOU VS YOU - Best Motivational Video - THIS SAYS IT AS IT IS!
Sunday, June 24, 2018
Wake Up Early|End Laziness|Motivational Speech Compilation |Morning Motivation|Success Motivation
Monday, June 11, 2018
Zing Up Your Life With These Positive Thinking Exercises
It is believed that one's thoughts govern one's words, which reaches the brain, and then, the brain converts those into actions. Hence, one should guide his/her thoughts towards something positive if they are tending towards depression and negativity, because that would have an impact on how one behaves. One can visualize a positive image and think about the things that make one happy, and try to keep the negativity in check.
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
Whatever The Mind Can Conceive & Believe It Can Achieve - Earl Nightingale
Tuesday, May 15, 2018
Monday, May 14, 2018
Les Brown's 15 Minute Morning Motivational Speech!!
Saturday, May 12, 2018
Friday, May 11, 2018
Put God First - Denzel Washington Motivational & Inspiring Commencement Speech -
What's Stopping You? Getting Rid of the Barriers
1. Insecure - People who are afraid rarely start anything because they figure that they will fail. In fact, they are defeated before they even get to the starting blocks. Old messages from childhood can interfere with their confidence and immobilize their actions. If you are feeling insecure, find a mentor who has found success in the field where you wish to achieve. Take time to gain knowledge. Soon you will be ready to take a step forward.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
Tuesday, May 8, 2018
The Law of Attraction and Letting Go of Your Limiting Beliefs
- No matter what I do or how hard I try, it's never good enough.
- I blame others for my problems.
- My opinion doesn't matter.
- What I do isn't really important.
- If people knew the real me they wouldn't like me.
- I shouldn't try anything new or risky because I'll probably screw it up.
- I don't deserve to be happy (be successful, have love, etc.)
- Mistakes and failure are bad.
- Start paying more attention to your self-talk. When you notice a negative thought, gently replace it with a thought that feels better. Practice the new thought as an affirmation. You can start the new thought with the words "I've decided" or "I chose." Ex: I choose to know that I am deserving of success" or "I've decided I am deserving of success."
- Scripting is another great way to practice new thinking and raise your vibration. Simply write a story about how you want your life to look, as if it was already accomplished. Use sentence starters like, "I love knowing that... " and "It's so exciting when... " Read your script frequently to raise your vibration-and make sure it is something that feels great to read!
- Vision boards and "mind movies" are great if you are a visual person. There are many resources online that will help you with ideas for creating a vision board or create a video version of a vision board.
- EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique, also called "tapping") or PSYCH-K are two modalities that work to help you shift limiting subconscious beliefs quickly.
Saturday, May 5, 2018
The Gravitational Pull of ANTs, WORMS & FEARS – How to Break Free and Level Up in Life
Life is a journey filled with growth, challenges, and self-discovery. Yet, many people find themselves stuck in repetitive cycles, unable to reach their full potential. The reason often lies in the gravitational pull of ANTs, WORMS, and FEARS. Understanding these concepts—and learning how to neutralize their influence—can help you break free and move to higher levels of personal and professional success.
What is an ANT?
ANT stands for Automatic Negative Thought. These are subconscious mental patterns that immediately tell us we cannot succeed, that we are not good enough, or that failure is inevitable. ANTs are like internal alarms, designed to keep us safe—but often they keep us trapped in self-limiting behavior.
For example, an ANT might whisper, “You’ll never finish this project on time”, and before you know it, you’ve stopped trying or settled for mediocrity.
What is a WORM?
A WORM represents deep-seated, unconscious beliefs—the kind that operate beneath the surface and often dictate our actions without our awareness. Like a computer virus, a WORM can lie dormant for years and suddenly emerge to sabotage our progress when triggered.
For instance, if your subconscious holds a WORM saying, “I don’t deserve success”, no amount of willpower may help you push forward consistently—until the underlying belief is addressed.
What is a FEAR?
FEAR is an acronym for False Evidence Appearing Real. FEAR is a perception, not reality. It convinces us that obstacles are insurmountable and that our dreams are unreachable. While FEAR is often an illusion, it can be a powerful force preventing you from taking action.
The Gravitational Pull Explained
Just as gravity keeps planets in orbit, ANTs, WORMS, and FEARS create invisible forces that keep us stuck at a certain level of thinking or performance. To progress to the next level in life, we must:
- Face our ANTs and challenge automatic negative thoughts.
- Identify and reprogram WORMS, the dominant beliefs holding us back.
- Neutralize FEARS to take bold, confident action.
When we expand consciously, emotionally, and spiritually, we automatically move into a higher vibration—a new “gravitational pull.” However, this shift brings a fresh set of ANTs, WORMS, and FEARS that test whether we are ready for continued growth.
How ANTs Hold Us Back
ANTs are subtle, pre-conscious thoughts. They nudge us to stay within comfort zones, suppressing our potential. Common ANTs include:
- “I’m not good enough.”
- “I’ll never succeed.”
- “Why even try? It’s too hard.”
Left unchecked, these thoughts erode self-confidence, stall action, and maintain stagnation.
How WORMS Keep You Stuck
Unlike ANTs, WORMS are deeply ingrained and resistant to surface-level effort. A single WORM can sabotage your life repeatedly, manifesting as procrastination, self-sabotage, or destructive behaviors.
For example, an ANT may prompt temporary doubt, but the underlying WORM might reinforce: “You will always fail—why bother?” This explains why sheer willpower alone often fails to overcome long-standing self-limiting patterns.
Neutralizing ANTs, WORMS & FEARS
- Awareness: Observe your thoughts without judgment. Journaling can help identify recurring ANTs.
- Challenge Beliefs: Ask yourself, “Is this thought really true? What evidence supports or refutes it?”
- Reprogram WORMS: Use techniques like affirmations, visualization, and cognitive restructuring to shift deep-seated beliefs.
- Face FEARS Gradually: Break daunting tasks into small, actionable steps, reducing the perceived threat.
- Expand Consciousness: Meditation, mindfulness, and spiritual practices elevate your mental state, allowing you to move into higher levels of attraction and success.
The Law of Attraction in Action
The Law of Attraction states that we attract what we are—not what we want. Your dominant thoughts, beliefs, and emotions act like a magnet, drawing circumstances that mirror your inner reality.
- Like attracts like: If your DNA programming is full of ANTs, WORMS, and FEARS, you will unconsciously attract environments and people that reinforce them.
- Quantum leaps: By neutralizing limiting patterns, you can create exponential growth rather than incremental progress.
Practical Steps to Break Free
- Identify Triggers: What situations or people activate your ANTs, WORMS, or FEARS?
- Replace Limiting Thoughts: Swap negative self-talk with empowering alternatives.
- Visualize Success: Imagine yourself acting confidently despite fear or doubt.
- Take Consistent Action: Fear diminishes through repeated exposure and mastery.
- Surround Yourself With Positive Influence: Seek mentors, coaches, and peers who encourage growth.
Conclusion
Your ability to move beyond the gravitational pull of ANTs, WORMS, and FEARS defines your trajectory in life. Awareness, reprogramming, and mindful action enable you to transcend limiting beliefs and achieve higher levels of consciousness, productivity, and fulfillment. Every step you take toward neutralizing negative internal forces accelerates your path to success.








