Real Growth Starts With You
Real growth begins when you take responsibility for your life — when you stop waiting for change and start creating it.
Decide what you want and move toward it every day. That’s how momentum builds. That’s when your standards rise.
Start Your Mindset ResetWednesday, March 13, 2019
Wednesday, February 13, 2019
How To Prevent The Ageing Effects Of Stress...
Experiencing high levels of stress can make you age prematurely.
“I remember a young man who found out that his mother had metastatic cancer. Within a few weeks he began growing a patch of white hair. It was quite amazing how quickly he went grey. I watched a 20-year-old girl find out she was pregnant, without knowing who the father was, and saw how she felt the pressure of the social and financial implications.”
Coping with stress
- Having a close friend or a professional to communicate with would be ideal.
- Meditation and stilling your mind to enable your inner solutions to arise can also assist. Exercising to channel off some extra tension will maybe assist temporarily.
- Making sure you eat quality, nutritious food during such times is certainly wise.
Also, ask yourself how your perceived stressful situation could serve or benefit you now and in the future?
Balance your perceptions
Ask yourself what the drawbacks would be if this emotionally stressful event had not occurred?
“Having unrealistic expectations about the world or yourself can add to your stress perceptions when life doesn’t match your ideal fantasy. Be sure your life expectations are balanced and realistic. Life offers a balance. One-sided events don’t occur.”
A great discovery is revealed when you take the time to honestly probe the initially unseen world that balances every event.
Friday, September 28, 2018
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Friday, August 10, 2018
Alan Watts ~ Why We're So Depressed...
Saturday, July 21, 2018
Learn How To Release The Tension In Your Body Through Meditation
Why Your Body Holds Tension (And Why It Matters)
Modern life places constant demands on both the mind and body. Stress, emotional strain, poor posture, and mental overload all contribute to one common outcome: stored tension in the body.
This tension doesn’t just disappear on its own. Instead, it accumulates in areas such as:
- The neck and shoulders
- The jaw
- The lower back
- The hips
- The stomach
Over time, this can lead to discomfort, fatigue, poor sleep, and even long-term health issues. Many people attempt to manage these symptoms externally, but the root cause often lies deeper—in the connection between the mind and body.
This is where meditation becomes a powerful tool.
How Meditation Releases Physical Tension
Meditation works by calming the nervous system and bringing awareness to the present moment. When practiced consistently, it helps shift the body out of a stress response (fight-or-flight) and into a restorative state (rest-and-digest).
When the mind slows down, the body follows.
Instead of unconsciously holding tension, you begin to:
- Notice where stress is stored
- Understand how it feels in your body
- Gently release it without force
This awareness is the first and most important step toward relaxation.
The Mind-Body Connection
The body and mind are not separate systems—they are deeply interconnected.
When you feel anxious, your muscles tighten.
When you feel overwhelmed, your breathing becomes shallow.
When you feel calm, your entire body softens.
Meditation strengthens your ability to influence this connection consciously. By calming your thoughts and focusing your attention, you send signals to your body that it is safe to relax.
A Simple Meditation Technique to Release Tension
You don’t need complicated routines or long sessions to begin. A simple, focused approach can be highly effective.
Step 1: Get Comfortable
Sit or lie down in a quiet space. Allow your body to be supported and relaxed. Close your eyes if it feels natural.
Step 2: Focus on Your Breath
Bring your attention to your breathing.
Notice the natural rhythm—no need to control it.
Let each inhale gently expand your body.
Let each exhale soften it.
Step 3: Scan Your Body
Slowly move your attention through your body, starting from the top of your head and moving downward.
Ask yourself:
- Where am I holding tension?
- What does it feel like? Tight? Heavy? Warm?
There is no need to change anything yet—just observe.
Step 4: Release with Awareness
As you notice areas of tension, imagine your breath flowing into that space.
With each exhale, allow the tension to soften.
Do not force it—simply invite it to release.
Step 5: Stay Present
If your mind wanders (which it will), gently bring it back to your breath and body.
Even a few minutes of this practice can begin to create noticeable shifts.
Where We Hold Tension Most Often
Understanding common tension areas can help deepen your practice.
Jaw and Face
Often linked to suppressed emotions or stress.
Try gently unclenching your jaw and relaxing your facial muscles.
Neck and Shoulders
Associated with responsibility and pressure.
Let your shoulders drop naturally with each exhale.
Chest and Breathing
Shallow breathing can signal anxiety.
Focus on slow, deep breaths to open this area.
Stomach
Emotional stress often settles here.
Softening your belly can create a sense of safety and calm.
Hips
Sometimes referred to as a storage area for emotional tension.
Allowing this area to relax can feel surprisingly releasing.
The Role of Consistency
One meditation session can help you feel better—but consistent practice creates lasting change.
Over time, meditation can help you:
- Recognise tension earlier
- Prevent stress from building up
- Respond calmly instead of reacting automatically
- Feel more grounded and in control
Think of it like training a muscle—the more you practice, the more natural relaxation becomes.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
When starting out, it’s easy to misunderstand how meditation works. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
1. Trying to “force” relaxation
Tension doesn’t release through pressure. It softens through awareness.
2. Expecting instant results
Some days will feel easier than others. Progress is gradual.
3. Judging your thoughts
A wandering mind is normal. Gently return to your focus without frustration.
4. Overcomplicating the process
Simple techniques are often the most effective.
The Long-Term Benefits of Releasing Tension
With regular meditation, the benefits extend far beyond relaxation.
You may begin to notice:
- Improved sleep quality
- Better emotional regulation
- Reduced physical discomfort
- Greater mental clarity
- Increased overall wellbeing
Most importantly, you develop a deeper connection with your body—one built on awareness rather than stress.
Making Meditation Part of Your Daily Life
You don’t need hours of free time to benefit from meditation.
Start with:
- 5–10 minutes in the morning
- A short session before bed
- A few mindful breaths during the day
Even small moments of awareness can reset your body and prevent tension from building.
Final Thoughts
Releasing tension isn’t about forcing your body to relax—it’s about learning to listen to it.
Meditation offers a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with yourself, calm your mind, and gently release the stress stored within your body.
The more you practice, the more natural this process becomes. Over time, relaxation stops being something you try to achieve—and becomes your default state.
Friday, July 20, 2018
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Wednesday, July 4, 2018
How to Create Life Balance Between Dreams and Habits
True imagination is not fanciful daydreaming, it is fire from heaven.”
— Ernest Holmes
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Thoughts Are Mental Currency — Spend It Wisely
You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.
— Dr. Wayne Dyer
Far away in the sunshine are my highest inspirations.
I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty,
believe in them and try to follow where they lead…
— Louisa May Alcott






