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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

How To Prevent The Ageing Effects Of Stress...


Experiencing high levels of stress can make you age prematurely.

You probably know at least a few individuals who have experienced what they imagine to be highly stressful events – maybe a divorce, the loss of a loved one, a reduction in income, debt or the discovery of a serious health issue – that has accelerated their ageing processes quite rapidly.

“I remember a young man who found out that his mother had metastatic cancer. Within a few weeks he began growing a patch of white hair. It was quite amazing how quickly he went grey. I watched a 20-year-old girl find out she was pregnant, without knowing who the father was, and saw how she felt the pressure of the social and financial implications.”

There are a few sensible actions you can take to cope.

Coping with stress

So what can you do if you find yourself experiencing circumstances that feel emotionally distressing?
  • Having a close friend or a professional to communicate with would be ideal.
  • Meditation and stilling your mind to enable your inner solutions to arise can also assist. Exercising to channel off some extra tension will maybe assist temporarily.
  • Making sure you eat quality, nutritious food during such times is certainly wise.

Also, ask yourself how your perceived stressful situation could serve or benefit you now and in the future?

To perceive only the negative side of the emotional equation and not even attempt to search for the accompanying positive side can further exacerbate the stress and keep you forever bound to the source of your stress.

Balance your perceptions

Balancing the equation can help dissolve this concentrated stress.
A balanced mind – seeing both the positive and negative side of things – offers the solution.

Ask yourself what the drawbacks would be if this emotionally stressful event had not occurred?

Sometimes we assume that our life would have been much
better if things would have turned out differently.
Sometimes people compare their present realities to falsely optimistic fantasies.
“Having unrealistic expectations about the world or yourself can add to your stress perceptions when life doesn’t match your ideal fantasy. Be sure your life expectations are balanced and realistic. Life offers a balance. One-sided events don’t occur.”
Since many stressful situations involve personal interactions with others, it’s wise to ask where and when you have participated in such an interaction with someone else who perceived you as being the source of their stress.
This question can humble you and make you think twice about unwisely judging others, since a lot of stress involves exaggerated judgments about others. Self-reflection is wise and honest introspection often reveals humbling histories. When you become reflective your expectations often become more realistic.
If someone is criticising or rejecting you, ask yourself where someone is simultaneously praising or accepting you, although maybe not within the same location.
This takes deep introspection, but it is worth it.

A great discovery is revealed when you take the time to honestly probe the initially unseen world that balances every event.


Friday, September 28, 2018

Saturday, July 21, 2018

Learn How To Release The Tension In Your Body Through Meditation



Why Your Body Holds Tension (And Why It Matters)

Modern life places constant demands on both the mind and body. Stress, emotional strain, poor posture, and mental overload all contribute to one common outcome: stored tension in the body.

This tension doesn’t just disappear on its own. Instead, it accumulates in areas such as:

  • The neck and shoulders
  • The jaw
  • The lower back
  • The hips
  • The stomach

Over time, this can lead to discomfort, fatigue, poor sleep, and even long-term health issues. Many people attempt to manage these symptoms externally, but the root cause often lies deeper—in the connection between the mind and body.

This is where meditation becomes a powerful tool.


How Meditation Releases Physical Tension

Meditation works by calming the nervous system and bringing awareness to the present moment. When practiced consistently, it helps shift the body out of a stress response (fight-or-flight) and into a restorative state (rest-and-digest).

When the mind slows down, the body follows.

Instead of unconsciously holding tension, you begin to:

  • Notice where stress is stored
  • Understand how it feels in your body
  • Gently release it without force

This awareness is the first and most important step toward relaxation.


The Mind-Body Connection

The body and mind are not separate systems—they are deeply interconnected.

When you feel anxious, your muscles tighten.
When you feel overwhelmed, your breathing becomes shallow.
When you feel calm, your entire body softens.

Meditation strengthens your ability to influence this connection consciously. By calming your thoughts and focusing your attention, you send signals to your body that it is safe to relax.




A Simple Meditation Technique to Release Tension

You don’t need complicated routines or long sessions to begin. A simple, focused approach can be highly effective.

Step 1: Get Comfortable

Sit or lie down in a quiet space. Allow your body to be supported and relaxed. Close your eyes if it feels natural.

Step 2: Focus on Your Breath

Bring your attention to your breathing.
Notice the natural rhythm—no need to control it.

Let each inhale gently expand your body.
Let each exhale soften it.

Step 3: Scan Your Body

Slowly move your attention through your body, starting from the top of your head and moving downward.

Ask yourself:

  • Where am I holding tension?
  • What does it feel like? Tight? Heavy? Warm?

There is no need to change anything yet—just observe.

Step 4: Release with Awareness

As you notice areas of tension, imagine your breath flowing into that space.

With each exhale, allow the tension to soften.
Do not force it—simply invite it to release.

Step 5: Stay Present

If your mind wanders (which it will), gently bring it back to your breath and body.

Even a few minutes of this practice can begin to create noticeable shifts.




Where We Hold Tension Most Often

Understanding common tension areas can help deepen your practice.

Jaw and Face

Often linked to suppressed emotions or stress.
Try gently unclenching your jaw and relaxing your facial muscles.

Neck and Shoulders

Associated with responsibility and pressure.
Let your shoulders drop naturally with each exhale.

Chest and Breathing

Shallow breathing can signal anxiety.
Focus on slow, deep breaths to open this area.

Stomach

Emotional stress often settles here.
Softening your belly can create a sense of safety and calm.

Hips

Sometimes referred to as a storage area for emotional tension.
Allowing this area to relax can feel surprisingly releasing.


The Role of Consistency

One meditation session can help you feel better—but consistent practice creates lasting change.

Over time, meditation can help you:

  • Recognise tension earlier
  • Prevent stress from building up
  • Respond calmly instead of reacting automatically
  • Feel more grounded and in control

Think of it like training a muscle—the more you practice, the more natural relaxation becomes.


Common Mistakes to Avoid

When starting out, it’s easy to misunderstand how meditation works. Here are a few things to keep in mind:

1. Trying to “force” relaxation

Tension doesn’t release through pressure. It softens through awareness.

2. Expecting instant results

Some days will feel easier than others. Progress is gradual.

3. Judging your thoughts

A wandering mind is normal. Gently return to your focus without frustration.

4. Overcomplicating the process

Simple techniques are often the most effective.


The Long-Term Benefits of Releasing Tension

With regular meditation, the benefits extend far beyond relaxation.

You may begin to notice:

  • Improved sleep quality
  • Better emotional regulation
  • Reduced physical discomfort
  • Greater mental clarity
  • Increased overall wellbeing

Most importantly, you develop a deeper connection with your body—one built on awareness rather than stress.


Making Meditation Part of Your Daily Life

You don’t need hours of free time to benefit from meditation.

Start with:

  • 5–10 minutes in the morning
  • A short session before bed
  • A few mindful breaths during the day

Even small moments of awareness can reset your body and prevent tension from building.




Final Thoughts

Releasing tension isn’t about forcing your body to relax—it’s about learning to listen to it.

Meditation offers a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with yourself, calm your mind, and gently release the stress stored within your body.

The more you practice, the more natural this process becomes. Over time, relaxation stops being something you try to achieve—and becomes your default state.



Friday, July 20, 2018

Third Eye Pineal Gland: The Biggest Cover Up in Human History

It's said that meditation is best at 4am in the morning & this explains why. You are more powerful than you know. What do you guys think of this knowledge?

Wednesday, July 4, 2018

How to Create Life Balance Between Dreams and Habits

The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream. The oak sleeps in the acorn; the bird sleeps in the egg; and in the highest vision of the soul, a waking angel stirs. Dreams are the seedlings of realities…”
— James Allen
One of the huge imbalances in life is the disparity between your daily existence, with its routines and habits, and the dream you have deep within yourself of some extraordinarily satisfying way of living.
In the quote that opens this [article], James Allen poetically explains that the dream is the magical realm out of which newly created life emerges. Buried within you is an unlimited capacity for creation, what Allen calls “a waking angel” that’s anxious to plant seedlings to fulfill your dreams and your destiny.
True imagination is not fanciful daydreaming, it is fire from heaven.”
— Ernest Holmes
I simply couldn’t resist adding the Ernest Holmes quote describing this dynamic imagination as “fire from heaven.”
They’re both appropriate invitations and reminders that you need to tend to that burning fire, the dream within you, if living a balanced life is important.

How This Imbalance Shows Up in Your Life

This absence of balance between dreams and habits may be very subtle. It doesn’t necessarily reveal itself in the obvious symptoms of heartburn, depression, illness, or anxiety—it’s more often something that feels like an unwelcome companion by your side, which continually whispers to you that you’re ignoring something.
There’s some often-unidentifiable task or experience that you sense is part of your beingness. It may seem intangible, but you can feel the longing to be what you’re intended to be. You sense that there’s a higher agenda; your way of life and your reason for life are out of balance. Until you pay attention, this subtle visitor will continue to prod you to regain your equilibrium.
Think of a balance scale with one side weighted down and the other side up, like a teeter-totter with an obese child on one end and a skinny kid on the other. In this case, the heavy end that tips the scale out of balance is the overweight kid representing your everyday behaviors: the work you do, the place where you reside, the people with whom you interact, your geographic location, the books you read, the movies you see, and the conversations that fill up your life.
It’s not that any of these things are bad in and of themselves. The imbalance exists because they’re unhealthy for your particular life—they simply don’t mesh with what you’ve imagined yourself to be.
When it’s unhealthy, it’s wrong, and on some level you feel that. When you live your life going through the motions, it may seem to be convenient, but the weight of your dissatisfaction creates a huge imbalance in the only life you have now.
You’re perplexed by the ever-present gnawing feeling of dissatisfaction that you can’t seem to shake, that pit-of-the-stomach sensation of emptiness. It shows up when you’re sound asleep and your dreams are filled with reminders of what you’d love to be, but you wake and return to pursuing your safe routine.
Your dreams are also demanding your attention in waking life when you’re petulant and argumentative with others, because in actuality you’re so frustrated with yourself that you try to relieve the pressure by venting anger outward.
Imbalance masquerades as a sense of frustration with your current lifestyle. If you allow yourself to think about this “fire from heaven,” you proceed to rationalize your status quo with explanations and mental meanderings that you know in your heart are excuses because you don’t think you have the tools to get in balance.
You may get to a point where you become increasingly hard on yourself and begin seeking medication and other treatment for feelings of inadequacy—and for what’s called depression. You’ll surely witness yourself feeling more and more angry and moody, with more frequent occurrences of minor afflictions such as colds, headaches, and insomnia. As time goes on in this state of imbalance, there’s less enthusiasm for what has become the drudgery of life.
Work is now even more routine, with even less purpose and drive. These blahs begin appearing in your behavior toward your family and those you love. You’re easily agitated, picking on others for no apparent reason. If you’re able to be honest with yourself, you recognize that your irritability stems from being out of balance with the bigger dream you’ve always had, but which is now apparently slipping away.
When these subtle symptoms surface, it’s crucial to explore the kind of energy you’re giving to the scale to create balance—or in this case, imbalance. The heavy angst is weighing down your reason for being—but you are the only one who can re-balance this scale of your life.
Here are some tools to help you return to a balanced life, beginning with recognizing the ways in which you may be sabotaging yourself.

How to Create Balance Between Dreams & Habits

Your desire to be and live from greatness is an aspect of your spiritual energy. In order to create balance in this area of your life, you have to use the energy of your thoughts to harmonize with what you desire. Your mental energy attracts what you think about. Thoughts that pay homage to frustration will attract frustration.
When you say or think anything resembling ‘There’s nothing I can do; my life has spun out of control, and I’m trapped,’ that’s what you’ll attract—that is, resistance to your highest desires!
Every thought of frustration is like purchasing a ticket for more frustration. Every thought that agrees that you’re stuck is asking the Universe to send you even more of that glue to keep you stuck.
The single most important tool to being in balance is knowing that you and you alone are responsible for the imbalance between what you dream your life is meant to be, and the daily habits that drain life from that dream.
You can create a new alignment with your mental energy and instruct the Universe to send opportunities to correct this imbalance.
When you do so, you discover that while the world of reality has its limits, the world of your imagination is without boundaries. Out of this boundless imagination comes the seedling of a reality that’s been crying out to be restored to a balanced environment.

Restoring the Balance Between Dreams & Habits

The objective of this principle is to create a balance between dreams and habits. The least complicated way to begin is to recognize the signs of habitual ways of being, and then learn to shift your thinking to being in balance with your dreams. So what are your dreams?
What is it that lives within you that’s never gone away? What inner night-light continues to glow, even if it’s only a glimmer, in your thoughts and dreams? Whatever it is, however absurd it may seem to others, if you want to restore the balance between your dreams and your habits, you need to make a shift in the energy that you’re contributing to your dreams.
If you’re out of balance, it’s primarily because you’ve energetically allowed your habits to define your life. Those habits, and the consequences thereof, are the result of the energy you’ve given them.
In the early stages of the re-balancing process, concentrate on this awareness: You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.
Give your personal dreams a place to hang out on the balance scale so that you can see them in your imagination and they can soak up the energy they deserve.

Thoughts Are Mental Currency — Spend It Wisely

Thoughts are mental energy; they’re the currency that you have to attract what you desire. You must learn to stop spending that currency on thoughts you don’t want, even though you may feel compelled to continue your habitual behavior.
You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.
— Dr. Wayne Dyer
Your body might continue, for a while, to stay where it’s been trained to be, but meanwhile, thoughts are being aligned with your dreams. The esteemed 19th-century writer Louisa May Alcott phrases this idea in an encouraging and inspiring manner:
Far away in the sunshine are my highest inspirations.
I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty,
believe in them and try to follow where they lead…
— Louisa May Alcott
Choosing to restore a semblance of balance between your dreams and your habits seems possible with Ms. Alcott’s phrases in mind: “look up and see,” and “believe in them.” The words bring to life an energetic alignment.
Rather than putting your thoughts on what is, or what you’ve habitually thought for a lifetime, you shift to looking up and seeing, and firmly believing in what you see.
When you begin to think in this manner, the Universe conspires to work with you, and sends you precisely what you’re thinking and believing. It doesn’t always happen instantaneously, but once the realignment is initiated in your thoughts, you’ve begun being in balance.