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Showing posts with label John Assaraf. Show all posts
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Friday, April 17, 2026

The Secret, Manifestation and Intuition

Mindset · Manifestation · Law of Attraction · 2026

The Secret, Manifestation and Intuition: How to Think, Feel and Act Your Way to the Life You Want

From Bob Proctor to Abraham Hicks to John Assaraf, the world's leading manifestation teachers share a common thread. This is what they actually teach — and how to apply it in your real life.

In 2006, a film called The Secret introduced tens of millions of people worldwide to a concept that had been quietly circulating in philosophical and spiritual traditions for centuries: the idea that your thoughts, feelings, and focus are not passive observers of your life but active participants in creating it.

The film featured some of the most prominent voices in personal development — Bob Proctor, John Assaraf, Jack Canfield, Lisa Nichols, and Dr Joe Vitale among them — alongside the teachings of Abraham Hicks, the collective wisdom channelled through Esther Hicks that had been laying the intellectual groundwork for the Law of Attraction for decades prior.

The Secret was not the origin of these ideas. It was a popularisation of principles that trace back through Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich (1937), Wallace Wattles' The Science of Getting Rich (1910), and further still into philosophical and spiritual traditions that span cultures and centuries. What the film did was make these principles accessible to an audience that had never encountered them before.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

The Gateway to Your Business Success

Your ability to focus, plan, feel or do anything is intimately tied to the mix of five different types of brainwaves your brain is producing at any given moment in time. Your brain produces multiple brainwaves simultaneously, but you are at your best when your brainwaves are perfectly aligned with what you are doing. But here’s the problem: Our over-thinking, over-stressed culture forces our brains to stay in the beta wave pattern more than our brains were meant to.
Let’s take a closer look at the five different types of brainwaves so you can more fully understand why it’s a problem when Beta Waves dominate.
  1. Beta Waves – This is the one you are in right now. It’s associated with being alert, working and stress. It’s not conducive to learning.
  2. Alpha Waves – Slower than Beta and indicates a deep relaxation. Super learning can take place here. It’s the bridge between your conscious and unconscious mind and it’s associated with being intuitive. This state can be induced through meditation, relaxation and a light trance.
  3. Theta Waves – Slower still, and normally only experienced when you are drifting off to sleep, waking up or when you dream. Theta waves are associated with increased creativity, accelerated healing and conducive to integrating your emotional experiences and changing behavior. This is the level of the subconscious that holds some of the deepest programming of our behavior.
  4. Delta Waves – The slowest, normally experienced during deep, dreamless sleep and very deep meditation. These waves are associated with accelerated healing, growth hormone production, and accessing your subconscious in a way not available any other way.
  5. Gamma Waves – The fastest brain waves, associated with higher mental acuity (not normal thinking or problem solving) and can include flashes of brilliance, sudden bursts of insights, as well as moments of extreme focus and concentration.

Tuesday, June 26, 2018

Understand Your Brain to Use Visualization

Let’s take a look at what happens in our brain when we visualize the future. There are two parts of our brain—the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious part of the brain is the part we are aware of; the conscious brain focuses on one thing at a time, whatever we think is important at the moment.
The subconscious brain doesn’t think this way. The subconscious brain sees a complete picture of everything happening all at once. The subconscious mind is aware of the input from all of your senses at every moment.
 
Your conscious brain…
  • The amount of information your conscious brain processes is about one-half of the one-millionth of one percent of the amount your subconscious brain processes.
  • For all its brilliance, the conscious brain has a major weakness—follow through.
  • The conscious brain is great at imagining things and thinking them through, but it’s next to useless when it comes to actually getting things done.
  • Your conscious brain is amazing at coming up with ideas, but useless when it comes to carrying them out because it is easily distracted.The average person changes focus every six to 10 seconds.
  • Goal-setting is something your conscious brain can do.
Your subconscious brain…
  • The subconscious brain can remember billions of things in perfect sequence, not only for minutes at a time, but for your lifetime. How often does it get distracted? Never.
  • Goal-attaining is something only your subconscious can do.

So, let me ask you, which part of your brain would want to trust and deliver on your dreams? The power is in your subconscious brain.
  1. Write any script you want and play that film out in your imagination. Your subconscious will watch it play out and think it’s real. The subconscious mind is a captive audience for the movies we play in our head.
  2. Realize a mere thought causes measurable biological changes—a scary movie can cause our hearts to race while a different image can evoke biological cues telling your body to relax.
  3. Combine the stories you are crafting about yourself with powerful emotions. A good story evokes powerful mental images and those images can create an emotional response that is stronger than what is really happening in our lives.
  4. Visualize your ideal life to reshape your perception of reality, and once that happens, reality conforms to that perception.
How effectively you are able to move an idea from your conscious (imagination) to your subconscious (belief/action) will determine your success. Visualization is the key to making this happen, because your subconscious mind doesn’t know that what you are visualizing is only in your imagination. Your life script visualized and acted upon can change the course of your life.

Sunday, April 22, 2018

Are You Interested or Committed? The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything



There is a defining moment many people experience at some point in their lives — a moment where they are faced with a simple but uncomfortable truth:

Are you interested in achieving your goals…
or are you truly committed to them?

At first glance, the difference may seem small. In reality, it changes everything.


The Question That Changes Your Direction

This concept was powerfully illustrated in a story shared by John Assaraf.

At 19 years old, he met a highly successful mentor who asked him a single question:

“Are you interested in achieving your goals, or are you committed?”

He went on to explain:

  • If you’re interested, you’ll do what’s convenient
  • If you’re committed, you’ll do whatever it takes

That distinction became a turning point — not just in his life, but in how many people now understand success.


Interest vs Commitment: The Real Difference

Most people believe they are committed.

But when you look closer, what they actually have is interest.

Being Interested Looks Like:

  • Taking action when it feels easy
  • Stopping when things become uncomfortable
  • Making excuses when progress slows
  • Letting circumstances dictate your effort

Being Committed Looks Like:

  • Taking action consistently — even when it’s difficult
  • Letting go of excuses and old stories
  • Adapting when things don’t go to plan
  • Continuing regardless of how you feel

Commitment is not about motivation.
It’s about decision and follow-through.


Why Most People Stay Stuck

Remaining “interested” is comfortable.

It allows you to:

  • Keep your current identity
  • Avoid risk
  • Protect yourself from failure

But it also keeps you:

  • Repeating the same patterns
  • Living within the same limitations
  • Delaying the results you say you want

The truth is — staying interested often means staying where you are.



What Happens When You Decide to Commit

Making a real commitment requires something deeper:

👉 Letting go of the reasons why you can’t
👉 Taking responsibility for your current results
👉 Choosing to act regardless of fear or uncertainty

This is where the shift happens.

Because once you are committed:

  • You stop negotiating with yourself
  • You stop waiting for the “right time”
  • You start focusing on solutions instead of obstacles

Commitment Requires Change

One of the most overlooked parts of commitment is this:

👉 You cannot create new results with the same thinking and habits

To move forward, you must upgrade:

  • Your knowledge
  • Your skills
  • Your standards

This is where real growth begins.


How to Move From Interest to Commitment (Practical Steps)

If you’re ready to take this seriously, here’s how to apply it.


1. Define Your Goals Clearly

Take a sheet of paper and write down one goal for each area of your life:

  • Health
  • Relationships
  • Career / business
  • Financial
  • Personal growth

Be specific.

👉 What do you want?
👉 When do you want to achieve it?


2. Identify Three Actions Per Goal

For each goal, write down three actions:

  • What do you need to learn?
  • What do you need to believe?
  • What do you need to do?

This turns your goal into something practical.


3. Schedule It (This Is Where Most People Fail)

A goal without action is just intention.

Take your action steps and:
👉 Put them into your calendar
👉 Assign a specific time

This is where commitment becomes real.


4. Focus on Consistency, Not Perfection

You don’t need perfect execution.

You need:

  • Daily action
  • Weekly progress
  • Long-term consistency

This is what separates those who achieve their goals from those who don’t.


The Mindset That Drives Results

People who achieve their goals don’t rely on:

  • Motivation
  • Mood
  • External validation

They rely on:
👉 Discipline
👉 Responsibility
👉 Consistent action

They understand that:

  • Obstacles will happen
  • Progress will not always be linear

But they continue anyway.


The Truth About “Whatever It Takes”

Commitment does not mean ignoring reality or burning out.

It means:

  • Staying focused on your outcome
  • Adjusting your approach when needed
  • Continuing to move forward

It is a long-term decision — not a short-term burst of effort.


Final Question

So now the question becomes:

👉 Are you interested…
or are you committed?

Because your answer will determine:

  • Your actions
  • Your consistency
  • Your results

Your Next Step

If you are ready to move beyond interest and start building real momentum:

👉 Start Your Mindset Reset