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Friday, April 17, 2026

The Secret, Manifestation and Intuition

Mindset · Manifestation · Law of Attraction · 2026

The Secret, Manifestation and Intuition: How to Think, Feel and Act Your Way to the Life You Want

From Bob Proctor to Abraham Hicks to John Assaraf, the world's leading manifestation teachers share a common thread. This is what they actually teach — and how to apply it in your real life.

In 2006, a film called The Secret introduced tens of millions of people worldwide to a concept that had been quietly circulating in philosophical and spiritual traditions for centuries: the idea that your thoughts, feelings, and focus are not passive observers of your life but active participants in creating it.

The film featured some of the most prominent voices in personal development — Bob Proctor, John Assaraf, Jack Canfield, Lisa Nichols, and Dr Joe Vitale among them — alongside the teachings of Abraham Hicks, the collective wisdom channelled through Esther Hicks that had been laying the intellectual groundwork for the Law of Attraction for decades prior.

The Secret was not the origin of these ideas. It was a popularisation of principles that trace back through Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich (1937), Wallace Wattles' The Science of Getting Rich (1910), and further still into philosophical and spiritual traditions that span cultures and centuries. What the film did was make these principles accessible to an audience that had never encountered them before.

Sunday, April 29, 2018

Feeling Defeated? How to Overcome Failure & Power Up Your Confidence

A couple years back, a client was talking about acting. They had performed in plays most of their life.
They told me how much sweat, blood, and tears goes into one single play. The hours and HOURS of learning the material... memorizing their lines... and getting ready for the show. Despite all this preparation, something inevitably happens the day of the show... something you wouldn't expect...
They said, more often than not, someone will forget their lines or make a mistake on stage.

So NOT just a mistake but a VERY PUBLIC mistake. (In some cases in-front of hundreds of people)
What do they do about it?
When it happens, the cast members simply adjust to the mistake.
They flow with it.
They roll with it.
They play along with it.
They even make up lines if they have to.
I had no idea!
Looking back on all the plays I'd seen, I wondered how many had to be adjusted because of mistakes.
Crazy thing is, I didn't notice and neither did the people I was with...
The truth is... most people don't.
I heard something similar from a former Chicago Cubs employee. He told me how one day, they were preparing for the first pitch of the game, when the guy who was supposed to bring out the ball, waltzed out there WITHOUT it...
(Mind you, that's in-front of thousands of people and on LIVE television.)
Once he realized it, he just kept waving to the crowd, casually walks back to the dugout, grabs the ball, and goes back out there.
Besides management, hardly anyone noticed it...
Now think about both of those situations. Hundreds if not thousands of people are watching when these mistakes happen...
Yet hardly anyone notices the mistake.
If a VERY public mistake like that is hardly detected - what are the chances that the little ones in our daily lives are?
Very often though, people beat themselves up about little mistakes they make - and think that EVERYONE is going to notice what happened.
Chances are no one saw it...
And as long as you "mend the fence" or "course correct" you have nothing to worry about.
So instead of pummeling yourself (Which most people are VERY good at!)
Maybe we should take lessons from theater (and the Cubs) when mistakes happen...
Roll with it
Play along with it
Have fun with it
Because the show goes on.